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DramaRomance

My Life Without Me

- What you are… is what you leave behind.

A fatally ill mother with only two months to live creates a list of things she wants to do before she dies without telling her family of her illness.

Release Date : 2003-03-07

Language :English

Adult : false

Status : Released

Production Company : El DeseoMilestone Productions

Production Country : CanadaSpain

Alternative Titles :

Cast

Sarah Polley

Character Name : Ann

Original Name : Sarah Polley

Gender : Female

Amanda Plummer

Character Name : Laurie

Original Name : Amanda Plummer

Gender : Female

Scott Speedman

Character Name : Don

Original Name : Scott Speedman

Gender : Male

Mark Ruffalo

Character Name : Lee

Original Name : Mark Ruffalo

Gender : Male

Leonor Watling

Character Name : Neighbor Ann

Original Name : Leonor Watling

Gender : Female

Debbie Harry

Character Name : Ann's Mother

Original Name : Debbie Harry

Gender : Female

Maria de Medeiros

Character Name : Hairdresser

Original Name : Maria de Medeiros

Gender : Female

Julian Richings

Character Name : Dr. Thompson

Original Name : Julian Richings

Gender : Male

Jessica Amlee

Character Name : Penny

Original Name : Jessica Amlee

Gender : Female

Kenya Jo Kennedy

Character Name : Patsy

Original Name : Kenya Jo Kennedy

Gender : Female

Camille Martinez

Character Name : Camille Martínez

Original Name : Camille Martinez

Gender : Male

Alfred Molina

Character Name : Ann's Father

Original Name : Alfred Molina

Gender : Male

Esther García

Character Name : Woman who does nails

Original Name : Esther García

Gender : Female

Reviews

B

badelf

@badelf

2023-09-16

As a narrative, it's a bit weak. But on other levels, this film is fascinating. The cast, especially Sarah Polley, does a bang up job. Every character real and believable - even the kids. First and foremost, the film is a strong advocate for "viva la vida" (Frida Kahlo before Cold Play!). There is an old Buddhist parable about a man running from a tiger and suddenly faced with a cliff. In one direction, the tiger; in the other, the cliff. He looks down and sees a branch growing out of the rock. Somehow, he casts himself down and grabs that branch. The tiger looks over the edge at him. He doesn't think either he or the branch can hold on too long. Then he spies a wild strawberry near the branch. He grabs it and eats it. It is the very best strawberry he ever ate in his soon-to-be-over life. And so it is with our protagonist. Having the harshness of mortality shoved in her face at a young age, she begins to live each day with full attention. Something humans hardly ever practice. Second, the interesting, but perhaps unrealistic, decision to withhold her diagnosis and prognosis from everyone, creates an entirely unexpected space. She takes her cue from Dr. Thompson (Julian Richings), who can't look someone in the eye and tell them they're going to die. From there, she decides not to put anyone else in Dr. Thompson's situation. This frees us from the overly maudlin watching someone die thread.